Christian Pioneer Redefines Sexuality for a New Generation - Page 2
It is really difficult to write on this topic because I believe that everyone needs to make their own decisions when it comes to their sexuality. I'm not going to tell you that sex before marriage is wrong. I am telling you to ask yourself these questions when you consider making decisions about your relationships:
1. Am I comfortable? — If you're not comfortable doing something, then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
2. Do I want to give this much of myself away? — If you don't think the other person deserves it, then don't do it.
3. Is there a chance that this will cause me pain later? — If the answer to this question is yes, then don't do it.
4. Is this who I want to be? — Think about the type of person that you respect and want to be like. Does this make you more or less like that person?
These are all questions that will help you to begin to set practical boundaries for your relationships. I love how Blanski challenges traditional Christian views on sex. I think that many are frustrated with the church's attempt to encourage purity for today's youth. A new, fresh perspective is exactly what we need. Thank you, Tyler Blanski, for being a catalyst for change. I'm sure you will change many lives with your inspiring words.